our wedding included no music at all. I had almost no say in how my own wedding went – my husband decided it should be over a long Easter weekend when a big family get together was planned in Boston – his hometown and where all his relatives lived. My idea was to wait until June and just have a big party in the yard – beer and franks, cookies and cake and music blasting. You have to know that we were living in a little USA/Canadian border town and everyone knew everyone and it would have been a blast – trust me.

Anyway – his younger sister  arranged everything, from the church to the reception dinner at a restaurant – and paid for it. The cake was had at his older sister’s house where just about everyone was parked in the living room watching the Stanley Cup because – Boston & hockey & the Bruins. 

Anyway – prior to all that my husband and I talked about what ‘our’ wedding song would be, keep in mind we were in our early 40’s  – 

My choice was – 

My husband’s choice was –